Day 27 was supposed to be artwork. This is a combination of a few “art” pieces. The left is the prayer flag I sent for Carly’s Beachside October 15th ceremony and the middle is a luminary I made for Avery for a Beachside October 15th ceremony. One of my favorite “art” pieces we have for Avery is her “A;” made by one of my amazing friends before Avery was born. She designed the letter to match Avery’s bedroom theme perfectly. It is one of my favorite pieces in her room and it means a lot that one of my friends spent so much time to make it so perfect for Avery. The bottom right is a piece I just recently received by another great friend who often leaves presents for us at Avery’s graveside. It is a pink butterfly with her name in the middle. It is super cute and most importantly, it makes me feel good that people still think about Avery and bring her gifts.
Day 28 was supposed to be a memory of your grief journey so far. I chose to highlight a memory that was a positive memory from this journey. I’ve been on the journey for 20 weeks and mostly have negative memories. I am really trying to focus more on the good than the bad so I picked probably one of the best nights I have had in the past 20 weeks. This picture is from the beachside luminary October 15th event I attended hosted by Elizabeth Ministries of Melbourne. While the event was emotionally draining, it was amazing to be surrounded by so many amazing families who are traveling this grief road with us. Some were further in their journey while others were newer to it than me. But it was so comforting to hear their stories, to see that many have found some peace and comfort and that they all are still standing. It was an amazing evening and I am very thankful to have met these amazing people.